Guides
Questions people ask before they join Only Amour.
Sending a first messageHow to write a first message that refers to the person you are writing to.
Dating in your forties and fiftiesStarting again later, with less time to waste and a clearer idea of what you want.
How discretion works hereWhat Only Amour never shows on a profile, what stays in messages, and what not to send first.
Saying what the arrangement isWhy a plain description gets more serious replies than hints, and how to say what you can and cannot offer.
Meeting someone safelyPractical steps before you meet someone from a dating site in person.
Meeting without advertising itHow to arrange a first meeting that stays ordinary in public, and what you do not owe a stranger.
Spotting a fake profileSigns that a profile is not a real member, and what to do when you see one.
The Online Safety Act, in plain EnglishWhat the UK Online Safety Act changes for adult sites, and what it does not require you to do here.
What the age check is forWhy the age check is optional, what it changes, and what you never have to upload just to join.
A photo you can be recognised fromWhat to show, what to crop out, and why a set of professional shots is a warning sign.
When someone wants to leave the siteWhy a request for WhatsApp, a surname, or money in the first messages is a reason to stop.
How to block and report someoneWhere Block and Report profile are, what a block does, and what to write when you report someone.
Who can see your profileWhat other members can read, what is not on the page, and why a web search will not open it.