Women seeking a married man are looking for a man who has said he is married. Married but looking, and married seeking, mean the same thing when the profile says married. Meet him on that fact. Do not guess it from a photo.
"I am looking for a married man, I can meet in the daytime, and this stays between us" is a profile. A woman who writes single, and then explains a husband in a later message, has written the wrong word. If his marriage is already over and the paperwork is not, the word on his profile should be separated. Does separated mean single? is that question.
Do not ask for his wife's name, his children's names, or his workplace. Where he is, that he is married, and the hour he has is enough.
Finding married men and women covers both sides. Dating married women is the other search. If you are already married is the page for the man writing his own profile.
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