If you are married, say so. A profile that waits until the third message is not discreet. It is a surprise, and the other person has already started planning around a version of you that is not true. "I am married, I live in Leeds, and I can meet for an hour at lunch" is a complete sentence. Men in the same position recognise it.
Say what you can offer, and say what you cannot, in that same sentence. A weekday lunch, an hour in the daytime, and a meeting that stays between you are an offer. A public relationship, a night away, and leaving the marriage are not, unless they really are. Hints attract people who are guessing. A yes or no sentence attracts people who want the same thing.
Do not name your wife, your children, or your workplace. Those details do not make the profile more honest. They put people who did not agree to this into it. Where you are, that you are married, and the time you actually have is the whole fact. If you are already married is the shorter version, written for anyone. For married women is the same fact, written for women. This page is the one men look for.
You do not get a reply by hinting, and you do not get one by asking for photos in the first note. Read the profile and use one line from it. For men who want a discreet arrangement is the rest of that. What gets a reply is the list.
If the marriage is over in every way that matters and the paperwork has not caught up, say separated, not married. Separated, but not divorced is that page. If the limit is the daytime, say that on its own. If you are looking for a woman who has already said she is married, dating married women is that search. Women looking for affairs is the phrase people type for the same thing.
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