How Only Amour works
Only Amour is a private way for adults to meet someone who wants the same discreet arrangement. Joining is free and messaging is free.The steps
Join, free
Create an account with an email address and a username, and confirm that you are 18 or over. There is no subscription and no credit card.
Confirm your email and add a photo
Search opens once your email is confirmed, you have added a photo, and the age check is approved. One current photo of you is enough. A person reviews it before it appears.
Do the age check
The age check is free. A person reviews it. It does not put your legal name on your profile, and other members never see the document. Until it is approved, other members' photos stay blurred and you cannot message anyone.
Say what you want
Say whether you are married, separated, or single, and say the hour you can keep.
Message on the site
Look near you and message them on Only Amour. Stay on the site until you know who you are writing to. A first meeting belongs in a public place.
Frequently asked questions
Is it really free to start?
Yes. Joining Only Amour is free and messaging is free. There is no subscription, no paywall, and no credit card. There is no paid tier.
How long does the age check take?
A person reviews it. There is no fee, and you cannot pay to skip the queue. Until it is approved, other members' photos stay blurred and you cannot message.
Can I change who can see me later?
Yes. You can pause your profile. Other members cannot find it or open it while it is paused, and you can still look. You can also choose not to appear to members in your own town. Women can look at profiles without a visit being announced. Only Amour has a quick exit. Shift and Escape leaves the site.
Do I have to upload a photo?
You need one photo before search opens. It is reviewed by a person. A current photo of your face is enough. You do not need a professional set.
What happens if I delete my account?
Your profile and the messages you sent are removed. Other members can no longer see them. Delete your photos and videos first, or deletion stops until they are gone. This cannot be undone.
If you want the detail
How the age check works, how to add a photo, how to pause your profile, and how to delete your account.
Blurred photos explains what other members see before the age check. Meeting someone safely is the list before you meet. Before you join collects the age check, who can see a profile, and a request for money. Safety is the longer version. Create a free account.