Only Amour is for adults who want a private arrangement. If that is you, you can say so. A profile here is for people who have an account and are signed in. Searching the web for your name does not open it. The guide on who can see your profile is the exact list.
Joining is free, and sending a message is free. There is no subscription behind a reply, and no credit to buy before you can say hello. If a member tells you that Only Amour has charged them, or that you need to pay to read their messages, that person is not telling you the truth.
Say what you want in plain words. If you are married, say so. If you can meet in the daytime and you cannot stay the night, say that too. Hints attract people who are guessing. A sentence they can answer yes or no to attracts people who want the same thing. The guide on what an affair means here is the plain description of that arrangement.
You do not owe a stranger a naked photo, a surname, a workplace, or a move to WhatsApp. A careful person can stay on Only Amour. Anyone who says the site is being watched, and that you should continue somewhere else, is using a common line. You can ignore it.
Reply to the message that refers to something you wrote. One specific line, the arrangement said plainly, and one question is a message. A compliment about your body, a request for more photos, or a rush to leave the site is the one to leave. You do not have to answer it to be polite.
If you want to stop, stop. Block needs no explanation, and you do not have to meet someone to tell them no. The guide on how to block and report someone is where the buttons are. One clear message is enough. You do not owe a debate.
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