A secret affair is a meeting two adults have agreed to keep between them. The secret is from everyone else. It is not a secret from the person you are meeting. If you are married, or already with someone, say so on the profile. A secret that starts with a lie about being single is how someone gets hurt.
On Only Amour that is an ordinary reason to be here. You can say you want an occasional meeting, and you can say how often you can manage it. You do not have to hint. People who want the same thing can answer. People who want something they can introduce to friends can look elsewhere. The guide on what an affair means here is the shape of that arrangement. The guide on why the site is called Amour is the shorter note on the word.
Secret does not mean hidden from the other adult. It means the arrangement is not published. Your surname, your workplace, your phone number, and a photograph you cannot take back stay off the profile. A web search does not open it. The guide on who can see your profile is the exact list. The guide on how discretion works is what else stays unsaid.
The usual leaks are ordinary. A lock-screen preview. A photo that lands in a shared camera roll. A check-in at a café you already use. A friend you tell, just so someone knows. None of those need a scandal to end the secret. The guide on what your phone gives away and the guide on meeting without advertising it cover those habits. Stay on Only Amour while you are still deciding. A number, a text, or another app is your ordinary life, and a message there is one someone at home may open. The guide on why it is better to stay on the site is that risk.
Joining is free, and sending a message is free. There is no subscription, and a conversation does not put a charge, or a name you would rather not explain, on a bank statement. The age check is free. Until it is done, you cannot message anyone, and other members' photos stay blurred. Do not join unless you will confirm that you are a real person. Only Amour is for real adults. It is not a place for bots, fake profiles, or anyone under 18.
You can pause your profile while you look. Other members cannot find it or open it until you show it again. If a partner may already be a member, add each email address they use under Privacy. You will not see a profile that uses one of those addresses, and they will not see yours, including if they join later. Once an address is added, it cannot be removed. Check the spelling before you save it. You can also choose not to appear to other members in your own town, from the same page. You can still look through your town.
If you want to stop, say so once and then stop writing. If they will not stop, block them. Their profile then looks as if it is not there, and they cannot find yours. Unblock is on Account, then Privacy, if you change your mind. The guide on how to block and report someone is where the button is.
If you cannot keep it between the two of you, do not start. A secret affair is a promise to the other person as well as to yourself. Do not name them to friends, do not screenshot their photos, and do not turn up at a place they have told you is part of their ordinary life.
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