Only Amour is for adults who want a private arrangement. If that is you, say so in the first message. A woman here is not waiting to decode a hint. She is deciding whether you want the same thing she does, and whether you can be trusted with it.
Joining is free, and sending a message is free. There is no subscription, no credit to buy before you can write, and no card to enter. If someone tells you that Only Amour charged them, or that she needs a fee to reply, that person is not telling you the truth.
Say the arrangement in two or three sentences. If you are married, say so. If you can meet at lunch and you cannot stay the night, say that. A compliment about her body, a request for more photos, or a rush to WhatsApp is the message she leaves. The guide on what gets a reply is the same standard, written as a list.
Her privacy is part of the arrangement, including if you already know her. Seeing a colleague, a neighbour, or a friend of your partner on here is not a story to take home. The guide on if you recognise someone is the rule. You keep it to yourself, or you leave the profile and say nothing.
You do not get a reply because you joined. You get a reply because the note could only have been sent to her, and because it matches what she wrote. Read the profile. Use one line from it. Then stop and let her answer.
If you are deciding whether this is the right place, the page for men is the short version, with the form. This guide is the part to read before you write to anyone.
Create a free account to message someone on Only Amour.