A search for a married man, or a married woman, is a search for someone who has already said they are married. On Only Amour that sentence belongs on the profile. It is not something to discover in the third message. If it is not written there, you do not yet know.
Married is a particular arrangement. It usually means a spouse at home, a limit on evenings, and a meeting that stays private. It is not the same as single, and it is not the same as separated. Read the word they chose. If you need something you can introduce to friends, this is the wrong profile.
Say your own situation in the same plain way. If you are married, say so. If you are single and you are willing to meet someone who is not, say that too. "I am looking for someone married, I can meet at lunch, and I cannot stay the night" is a sentence a person can answer. A hint is not.
Do not ask for their spouse's name, their children's names, or their workplace. Those details do not prove the profile is honest. They put other people into an arrangement they did not agree to. Where they are, that they are married, and what they can offer is enough.
Joining is free, and sending a message is free. There is no subscription behind a reply. A member who says you must pay, or move to another app, to meet someone married is not telling you the truth. Stay on Only Amour until you have decided they are a real person.
The guide on if you are already married is the version for writing your own profile. This one is for reading someone else's. The guide on what an affair means here is the shape of the arrangement, if you are still deciding whether it is what you want.
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