If you recognise someone

What to do when a profile belongs to someone you know, and why their privacy is part of being here.
A phone with a dark screen beside a closed notebook, the room otherwise empty.

You may open a profile and know the person. A colleague, a neighbour, a friend of your partner. On a site for private arrangements, that is not a story to take home. Their privacy is part of the arrangement, even when you never speak.

Do not tell anyone. Do not mention it to a mutual friend, and do not contact them on another app to say you saw them here. A private arrangement stops being private the moment a third person hears about it. You do not get to decide that for them.

Close the profile if you cannot keep it to yourself. If you can, you may message them on Only Amour, about the arrangement, and nowhere else. Using what you saw as gossip, a threat, or a joke is the thing the site will not treat as a misunderstanding.

The same promise covers you. A web search does not open your profile. A partner who is not a member cannot browse to it. A member who is signed in can, which is why this rule exists. The guide on who can see your profile is the list of what they actually see.

If someone breaks it, block them and report the profile. You do not owe them a conversation about why you were here.

The page for men and the page for women both ask you to confirm this before the form. Read it as a promise, not as a line to click past.

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