A lot of members in their thirties are already married, or in a long relationship, or recently out of one. Say which. "I am in my thirties, I am married, and I can meet at lunch" is enough. You do not need the story of how you got there, and you do not need to sound as if you are twenty-five.
Be specific about time. Evenings may belong to a child, a shift, or a partner. Write the hour you can actually keep. If you can only meet in the daytime is that limit on its own. If the marriage is the fact, for married women is the longer page.
Leave your workplace, your surname, and your children's names off the profile. One current photo is enough. A gallery of old nights out does not make the profile more trustworthy. If you are still deciding, you can pause the profile and look before anyone can find you.
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