You can be a woman looking for a woman and want the arrangement kept private. The join form has that choice. "I am a woman looking for a woman, I am married, and this stays between us" is a profile. Do not make her guess either fact from a photo.
An affair here is an occasional meeting between two adults who have both agreed to keep it private. It is not a promise to leave someone, and it is not a public relationship. What an affair means here is that shape. Women looking for women is the practical list. If you also want to meet a man, bisexual affairs is that page.
If your partner knows and has agreed, say open relationship. An open relationship, and they know is that offer. If he does not know, say married. For married women is the longer page. If you can only meet in the daytime is the hour, if a night away is not something you can do.
You can keep your photo blurred until you decide to show it. If you are not out, you do not have to be. Leave the workplace and the children's names off the profile. A job where you cannot be seen dating and keeping this from your children are those two worries. Only Amour will never ask you to pay to message another woman, or to keep the account quiet.
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