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Dating a younger man

What to say if you want to meet a younger man, and why both ages belong on the profile.
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Say your age and his, and say the true situation in the same sentence. "I am in my forties, I am married, and I would like to meet a younger man" is the offer. A younger man who thinks you are single will plan the wrong week. For married women is the marriage. If you can only meet in the daytime is the hour, if that is the limit.

He is an adult. The site is 18 and over. Do not write in a way that hides how far apart you are, and do not use a photo from the decade you are trying to meet. One current picture is enough. Leave your workplace, your surname, and anyone else's name off the profile.

Only Amour will never ask you for a fee. A younger man who asks you to pay, or to move off the site before you have met, is the pattern in spotting a fake profile.

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