You can be a woman looking for a woman and still want the arrangement kept private. Say both facts. "I am a woman, I am looking for a woman, I am married, and this stays between us" is a profile. Do not make her guess your situation from a photo, and do not make her guess that you want a woman. Lesbian affairs is the affair written out. If you also want to meet a man, bisexual affairs is that page.
Married, separated, or single still have to be said. Those are different offers, whoever you are hoping to meet. For married women is the marriage. If you can only meet in the daytime is the hour. No strings, or friends with benefits is the shape, if a public relationship is not what you are offering.
A web search does not open your profile. Other members see the username, the age, the town, and the photo you choose. You can keep that photo blurred until you decide to show it. For women who want a discreet arrangement is the rest of what you can refuse, including a surname and a move off the site. You do not owe a more revealing photo because the person asking is also a woman.
If you are not out, you do not have to be, on this page or anywhere else. Leave the workplace and the children's names off the profile. A job where you cannot be seen dating and keeping this from your children are those two worries. You can pause the profile and look before anyone can find you.
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