A man looking for a man can still need the arrangement kept private. A wife, a job, or a town where people talk are ordinary reasons. Say both facts. "I am a man looking for a man, I am married, and I can meet at lunch" is a complete profile. Do not make him guess your situation from a photo, and do not make him guess that you want a man.
Choose a man looking for a man on the profile. Sexuality has a choice called Homosexual. Select it if that fits, and write gay in the sentence if that is your word. For men who want a discreet arrangement is the longer practical list. If you are already married is the marriage. If you also want to meet a woman, bisexual affairs is the other page.
If your partner knows and has agreed, say open relationship rather than a secret. An open relationship, and they know is that. If the hour is the limit, say the hour. A night away, your own home, and a public relationship are different offers. Write the one you can keep.
Leave her name, your workplace, and your surname off the profile. You can pause it and look before anyone can find you. A web search does not open it. You do not owe another man a more revealing photo because you are both men. Only Amour will never ask you for a fee to message him, or to keep the account quiet.
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