No strings, on this site, means an occasional meeting that both adults have agreed will not become a public relationship. Friends with benefits means the same shape, said in plainer English. Write one of those sentences. "No strings, you know what I mean" leaves the other person to guess, and guessing is how someone gets hurt.
Say the rest of the truth in the same line. If you are married, say so. If you are single and you want this kept quiet because of work or family, say that. If you cannot stay the night, say that. If you can only meet in the daytime is that limit. For married women is the marriage. A no-strings offer that hides a husband is not no strings. It is a lie about the life they would be walking into.
You do not have to be explicit about anything you would not say in a quiet bar. You do have to be specific enough that they can say yes or no. Saying what the arrangement is is the longer version of the wording. What an affair means here is the shape, if affair is the word you mean instead.
Either of you can stop. One clear message is enough, and then you can block if they keep writing. Ending an arrangement is that. Only Amour will never charge you to start this, or to finish it.
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