Say your age and his, and say the true situation. "I am in my thirties, I am single, and I would like to meet an older man" is one offer. "I am married, and I would like to meet an older man at lunch" is another. For married women is the marriage. Dating a younger man is the gap the other way around.
He is an adult. Do not hide how far apart you are, and do not use a photo from another decade. One current picture is enough. Leave workplaces and surnames off the profile. The meeting stays in the hour you named.
Only Amour will never ask you for a fee. An older man who asks you to pay, or to move off the site before you have met, is the pattern in spotting a fake profile.
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