A discreet affair starts with a true sentence. Say whether you are married, separated, or single, and say the time you actually have. "I am married, I can meet at lunch, and this stays between us" is enough. Discreet dating works here as that sentence, then a message on the site, then a public place if you both still want to meet.
Do not hint. People who want the same thing can answer a plain limit. People who want a relationship they can tell their friends about can look elsewhere.
Discretion is what you leave off the profile. No surname, no workplace, no children's names, and no photo you cannot take back. How discretion works here is that list. What is an affair? is the shape of the meeting. What a secret affair means is the privacy. The secret stays between the two of you. It does not stay a secret from the person you are meeting.
Keep the messages on Only Amour until you know who you are writing to. Anyone who says the site is being watched, and that you should continue somewhere else, is using a common line.
When you meet, choose a café and your own way there and home. A hotel room, a house, or a car is a later meeting, if it happens at all.
Only Amour will never ask you for a fee to keep an arrangement quiet.
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