One clear photo of your face is enough for a serious person. You can keep it blurred until you decide to show it. A request for more, or for a picture you would not want saved, is a request you can ignore. Discretion is not a reason to send something you cannot get back.
Say no in one line, or say nothing. You do not owe a debate. A man who says the site is being watched, and that the photos should continue somewhere else, is using a common line. Stay on Only Amour. When someone wants to leave the site is that pattern. A photo you can be recognised from is the picture that does belong on the profile.
Do not send a photo that includes your house, your workplace, a child, or anyone who did not agree to be in it. Crop those out of the picture you do use. If the request continues, block and report. You can pause the profile while you decide whether you want to be found at all.
Only Amour will never ask you for a photo, or for a fee, to message someone. A member who says we will is not telling you the truth. Spotting a fake profile is the rest of that pattern.
Create a free account to message someone on Only Amour.