For single women
Say that you are single. Say that you want company, if a public relationship is not what you are offering. Read his profile for the word he chose.Lonely is a reason to be here. So is wanting an evening with someone, and not a boyfriend to introduce. You do not have to dress either of those up. "I am single, I would like company, and I am not looking for a serious relationship" is a profile.
In a relationship, engaged, and married are different limits, and he should have written the true one. Do not guess it from a photograph, and do not ask him to call himself single. If you need something you can tell friends about, look for a man whose profile says single.
This page is for a woman who is single. If you are married, engaged, or already with someone, say that instead. Do not ask for his partner's name, his children's names, or his workplace. A web search does not open your profile. Stay on Only Amour. Joining is free and messaging is free.
Guides
Women seeking a married man
What women seeking a married man should write, and why married looking and married seeking mean the profile says married.
Finding someone who is in a relationship
How to look for a man or a woman who is already in a relationship, and what that profile should say.
Finding someone who is engaged
How to look for an engaged man or an engaged woman, and why that is not the same as single.
No strings, or friends with benefits
What those words mean on a profile, and how to say the offer so the other person is not left to guess.
Frequently asked questions
Do I have to want a serious relationship?
No. Company is enough to say. You do not owe a relationship you can introduce to friends.
What if I am lonely?
Say that you would like company. You do not have to call it a search for a partner.
How do I know he is attached?
Read the profile. In a relationship, engaged, and married are the words. If it says single, you do not yet know.
Is there a fee?
No. Joining is free and messaging is free. There is no subscription and no credit card.
Other situations
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