For people over 40
Put 40, or 47, or whatever the age is. A profile that implies you are still in your thirties is the one people stop trusting when they meet you.A recent photo, ordinary clothes, and one sentence about the town you live in will do. A divorce, children, or a job you would rather not name can be one line, or left until you trust someone.
There is no separate area for people over 40, and no fee to message someone your own age. The age on the profile is the age you are.
Frequently asked questions
Do I have to put my age on the profile?
Yes. The age is part of the profile. Use a photo from this year so the person you meet is the person in the picture.
Is there a paid group for older members?
No. The site is free for everyone. There is no subscription and no credit card.
Guides
Dating over 40
Dating in your forties without pretending to be younger, and without writing your life story on the profile.
Dating in your forties and fifties
Starting again later, with less time to waste and a clearer idea of what you want.
Dating over 50
Dating over 50 means saying your decade and using a photo from this year. Over 50 dating is the same search.
Other situations
For a public job, For executives, For people over 50, For people over 60