For married people
Say that you are married, and say that you want this kept private. The other person needs that before they rearrange a week."I am married, I want this kept private, and I can meet away from home" is a profile. A username does the rest. A surname, a workplace, and a wedding photograph do not belong on the page.
A partner who is not a member cannot browse to the profile. A member who is signed in can. You can hide from your own town, and you can hide from an email address, under Privacy in your account. An address you add cannot be removed. Check the spelling first.
Stay on the site. A phone number and a social profile sit next to the rest of your life. Joining is free, so there is nothing to save by moving the conversation.
Frequently asked questions
Should the profile say I am married?
Yes. Say it in the first lines, and say what you can offer.
Can my partner open the profile?
Only if they are a member and signed in. A web search does not open it. You can hide your profile from an email address they use. Once that address is added, it cannot be removed.
Is there a charge on a statement?
No. Joining is free and messaging is free. There is no credit card.
Guides
Married dating
How to say you are married, what to leave off the profile, and which guide matches your situation.
For married women
What a married woman can put on a profile, what stays off it, and why the other person needs that fact before they rearrange a week.
For married men
What a married man can put on a profile, what stays off it, and why the other person needs that fact before they rearrange a week.
If you are already married
Why a married profile should say so, and what you can and cannot offer.
Married but looking
Married but looking means the profile says married, and it says what you are looking for. Married looking means the same thing.
Other situations
For a public job, For executives, For people over 40, For people over 50