For married men
Say you are married before anyone rearranges a week around you. A clear sentence is the profile."I am married, I want this kept private, and I can meet away from home" is enough to start. Do not put a surname, a workplace, or a wedding photograph on the page.
Messages stay on Only Amour. There is no fee, and no reason to move to a phone number or another app. A partner who is not a member cannot browse to the profile.
Frequently asked questions
What should the first line say?
That you are married, and what you can offer. Leave the rest until you trust someone.
Is this a paid service for married men?
No. Joining is free and messaging is free. There is no credit card.
Guides
For married men
What a married man can put on a profile, what stays off it, and why the other person needs that fact before they rearrange a week.
Married dating
How to say you are married, what to leave off the profile, and which guide matches your situation.
For men who want a discreet arrangement
What to say first, what not to ask for, and why a clear offer gets an answer.
If you are already married
Why a married profile should say so, and what you can and cannot offer.
Other situations
For a public job, For executives, For people over 40, For people over 50