For meeting in another town
Name the town and the limit. "I can meet in York at lunch, and I cannot stay the night" is a sentence someone can plan around.There is no travel setting that matches you to a city before you arrive. You say where you can be, in the profile or in the message.
Meet somewhere you do not already use with the people you are keeping this from. Your own way there, and your own way home. Only Amour is free, so the trip is not covering a subscription.
Frequently asked questions
Can the site match me in a city before I get there?
No. You look for people, and you say which town you can reach.
What if I only have a lunch hour?
Say so. A night away is not part of the offer unless you have said that you can stay.
Guides
Meeting in another town
How to say you will travel, and why the meeting should not be in the place you already use.
If you can only meet in the daytime
How to say you have a lunch hour or a school run, and why a night away is not part of the offer.
Meeting without advertising it
How to arrange a first meeting that stays ordinary in public, and what you do not owe a stranger.
Other situations
For a public job, For executives, For people over 40, For people over 50